Brandi Love (born March 29, 1973) is an American adult film actress who has become the defining MILF performer of her generation. With her striking blonde looks, toned physique, and commanding screen presence, Love has maintained top-tier status in the industry well into her 40s and 50s - a rarity in youth-focused adult entertainment.
"Age is just a number. Confidence and attitude are what really make a woman sexy." - Brandi Love
Beginning her career at age 32, Love shattered industry expectations about age and longevity. Beyond her on-screen work, she's become a successful entrepreneur, political commentator, and fitness inspiration, proving that adult entertainment can be just one facet of a multifaceted career.
Born Tracey Lynn Livermore in Raleigh, North Carolina, Love grew up in a conservative Christian household. She attended North Carolina State University where she earned a degree in business management. Before entering adult entertainment, she worked in corporate sales and owned several small businesses.
Love has been married to Chris Potoski since 1996. Remarkably, her husband has been supportive of her career, even appearing with her in several scenes early in her adult film work. The couple does not have children but have spoken openly about their decision to remain child-free.
Unlike many in the adult industry, Love identifies as a conservative Republican. She's been outspoken about her political views on social media and has attended political events including CPAC. This has occasionally created controversy within the industry but has also earned her a unique following.
Love entered the adult industry in 2005 at age 32 - considered extremely late by industry standards. She initially performed under the name "Ava" before adopting the Brandi Love persona that would make her famous. Her maturity and business background gave her an advantage in navigating the industry.
By 2008, Love had become one of the most sought-after MILF performers. Her breakthrough came through her work with studios like Brazzers and Naughty America, where her "soccer mom" looks contrasted with her uninhibited performances. She became particularly known for her intense boy/girl scenes.
What makes Love's career extraordinary is her ability to remain relevant as she aged. While most female performers retire in their 30s, Love continued booking top roles into her late 40s by maintaining her physique and evolving her persona from "hot mom" to "cougar" to "mature dominatrix."
Beyond performing, Love has built several successful businesses:
Standing 5'6" with measurements of 34D-24-35, Love's physique defies conventional expectations for women in their 50s. Her signature look includes:
Her on-screen persona evolved from "girl next door" to "dominant cougar," reflecting both her personal growth and the industry's changing tastes. Love is known for performing most of her own stunts and maintaining creative control over her scenes.
Love's trophy case includes numerous industry honors recognizing her longevity and impact:
Perhaps her greatest achievement is maintaining A-list status for over 15 years in an industry where most female performers' careers last 2-3 years.
Love proved that performers could remain commercially viable well into middle age, paving the way for other mature performers. Her success helped expand the MILF category into one of the industry's most profitable genres.
As an outspoken conservative in a largely liberal industry, Love has sparked important conversations about political diversity in adult entertainment. Her willingness to express unpopular opinions has made her a polarizing but important figure.
Love's physique has made her a fitness icon for women over 40. Her workout routines and diet plans have gained popularity beyond adult entertainment fans.
As of 2024, Love continues to expand her brand with:
With her combination of business savvy, physical discipline, and unapologetic authenticity, Brandi Love has secured her place as one of adult entertainment's most enduring and fascinating figures.